Spending money on other people

[j4]

By the way if I've bought you anything recently you absolutely mustn't feel guilty about it, I'd probably bought the stuff before the current out-of-money situation & besides it was me who bought it & therefore not your fault. Okay? It's just been pointed out to me that I'll make everybody feel awful about things I've given them, and I don't want that to happen, I like giving people things. Yes I am going to have to stop now at least for a while, but I can't un-buy the things I already bought.

Well, I suppose I could sell stuff, but that's different. And I tried to sell a bunch of CDs on ucam.thingy but the only person who's responded is a friend (sort of) who is currently stressing me out a lot & is probably just buying the damn things as an excuse to see me, and is also not on UMS so I'd have to pay to get the stuff to them, & I don't know how to say "no" without causing offence. :-(