Notes to self

[j4]

1. Requests for communication always result in a complete cessation of communication. Possible action: stop requesting communication from people who despise me? Remain silent for rest of life? (Would even that be enough?)

2. Holidays do not help. I always end up taking with me the thing from which I most require a holiday. Possible action: find a job which doesn't allow holiday? Get rid of the thing from which I require a holiday?

Comments

Re: Undemonstrative

[j4.livejournal.com]

one of the most considerate couples I know of

Or else they're just not the demonstrative kind. Some people aren't.

Couples live in some kind of other time-and-space to the rest of us and they are kind of oblivious

With due respect, that's a sweeping generalisation. There are plenty of couples who don't behave like this, who are quite capable of not letting the fact that they're living together / sleeping together / etc. interfere with the day-to-day at all. Admittedly people in the throes of New Relationship Energy (or whatever it's called this week) do tend to be rather wrapped up in each other, but IME that period only lasts for about 3 weeks before you start throwing furniture at each other.