Three questions of etiquette
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j41. Is there any non-offensive way to say to people (who have misinterpreted our probably-confusing invitations-and-website nonsense and RSVPd to say they will be pleased to come to the wedding) "I'm sorry but the invite was only to the reception (because the actual wedding is v small)"? I just feel as though any way of saying it feels really horrible but we honestly can't fit everybody in. :-(
2. Is it even worse to ask this on my LJ where a) inevitably some people reading this will not have been invited to either (all other things being equal, this would still be a world-readable journal and the venue would still be finite) and b) everybody will think "oh noes are they talking about me?".
3. Might it be better to just shoot myself now?
2. Is it even worse to ask this on my LJ where a) inevitably some people reading this will not have been invited to either (all other things being equal, this would still be a world-readable journal and the venue would still be finite) and b) everybody will think "oh noes are they talking about me?".
3. Might it be better to just shoot myself now?
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Date: 2008-12-02 01:30 pm (UTC)Because you'd've been fasting before the wedding, and you're breaking your fast. HTH HAND HORSE.
I think weddings used to tend to be earlier, too. I didn't want to get married in the morning because I think it's technically illegal to get married while asleep.